Toddlers are infamous for tantrums and other
behavior issues. To encourage listening and cooperation, follow these
parenting tips.By Mayo Clinic Staff
Life can be frustrating for toddlers. Though eager to show their
independence, toddlers can't always move as swiftly as they'd like or
express their needs. This combination can lead to tantrums and
misbehavior. But you can teach your toddler to behave well by providing
love, attention, praise, encouragement and a degree of routine. Consider
these practical parenting tips.
Show your love
Positive attention tops the list of parenting tips for toddlers. Make
sure your displays of affection for your child outnumber any
consequences or punishments. Hugs, kisses and good-natured roughhousing
reassure your child of your love. Frequent praise and attention also can
motivate your toddler to follow the rules.
Accept your child
As your child grows, he or she will display certain personality
traits. Some of these are learned, others genetic. Respect your child's
developing individuality and don't expect him or her to be just like
you. While you're likely to notice certain features of your child's
temperament, avoid labeling them — which can encourage bad behavior.
Instead, nurture your child's personality by finding ways to help him or
her feel confident. A strong-willed child, for instance, has
perseverance. Build on your child's strength by encouraging him or her
to play with a challenging toy.
Minimize rules
Rather than overloading your child with rules from the outset — which
might frustrate him or her — prioritize those geared toward safety
first and gradually add rules over time. Help your toddler follow the
rules by childproofing your home and eliminating as many temptations as
possible.
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